Hello Fellas!!!
Welcome to this week's dose of the brand new episode...and the third in the versus series...
In this Series we gonna discover some cool and interesting transforming genres of thinking. So, tune in with this song...
As Confucious once said:
''Give a man a fish and you will feed him for a day,
Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime!!!''
Similar to the above sayings, that's what this blog post is going to be about. This is the genre where I can write without boring you with factual knowledge because this is something related to thinking and that's what my blogs are all about.
Quoting a great man that once said:
"Never Run before the one,
until they are ready to accept
you for being the one and only one!!!"
To give an overview, that differentiates both only one thing can be said with respect to fixed and growth mindset that a fixed mindset prevents you from falling in the short term, but it impedes your ability to learn and develop new skills in the long term. A growth setting takes you to a new level of success while leaving a fixed setting where you started.
When it comes to thinking it is always impossible to break the patterns of your mind that are set in place for so long that it almost requires an impeccable amount of external force, energy, and momentum to get out of the loop. In some cases, impossible if you don't find the right and essential amount of factors, experiences, people shaping how you think. And sometimes procrastinating leads to trouble keeps on adding when it's about making the choices now and then to reach the outcome. Then what is it that you do that saves your life...Well, a Growth Mindset is an answer to all the sufferings that come beyond your imagination. Before, knowing what a growth mindset is all about let's focus upon what fixed is and how one gets stuck in for so long...
What is a Fixed Mindset???
Nobody, on this earth, can completely agree with the fact that they don't have a fixed mentality. Because this is something that we are born with. So, no arguing with the fact that one doesn't support a fixed mindset mentality. So, if we are born with a fixed mindset then how one identifies this in a particular situation??? and also is it bad to have??? and how to overcome one???
So, a fixed mentality believes just in talent rather than the ability to develop talent, the one who believes in the reward rather than focusing on improving the system to achieve the reward, the ones who resist feedback and take it as a personal attack, the one who just looks at the actions rather than finding the motive behind the action, the one who is ready to a breakdown in the time of adversity rather than coming out stronger, the ones who believe in quantity rather than quality basically everything that limits you to see the wider perspective and confine you to narrow picture this is in short how fixed mentality works.
Now, the question arises...
How to overcome a fixed mindset?
Well, to answer that in my previous blog post I discussed that to overcome a particular belief you need to set new ones in place and that's something that works for the mentality too. The way you respond to your negative and limited self-talks that comes out of the fixed mindset that tricks you into believing that everything is fixed and nothing can be changed. To, that you gonna respond it back...'Sab theek hai chachu, All is Well!!!' .And then ...
Explore → Choose →Decide →Conquer
That's, how it works never let the situations ruin your game. If you believe you can then you will and you have. There is nothing that you cant learn with time. So, never rush the timeline.
If you are like me someone who is obsessed with perfection and fear starting things alone in the fear that things won't turn out as expected then my friend you gotta break the stereotype(every limited and fixed thought that comes to your mind) and start with small steps because it might not appear to you but your expectations and craving for perfections is killing you.yes, it is not easy as it sounds, and myself has been also struggling with it in most cases. But what makes the difference is the pleasure of that small accomplishment which you have along the journey and there is always a long road to go. Let, say this blog is a very small step in my journey to bring out that hidden and far shy writer in me that was suffocating with thoughts and experiences needed to be shared and push myself to try out the new and different things which many of us might struggle and fear with. Results, come automatically if you start loving and enjoying the process and you build your own way or a system around it, rather than waiting for the results of the general systems in place.
Final Thoughts...
Quoting one of the famous author that inspired me at the beginning of my journey, that goes as follows...
"Winners don't do different things, they do things differently!!!"
Adding to the above sayings...winners are nothing different, they are different because they believe in themselves to make difference...And life is a journey where victory often comes undefined to those who believe in themself!!!
I hope, you enjoyed the episode...stay tuned for the second part of this series...that will be coming soon!!!
It's Mr.Rock Signing Off!!!
Take Care all you lovely friends...!!!💙💚💜